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| Broken Hearted |
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| Ok ladies. Here's letting you all know about the one thing we never seem to understand about guys: When we're dating a guy and it ends, we are all heartbroken, it doesn't matter who you are, you're hurt! A lot of guys think they hold the upper hand... only because we let them. We never seem to stop them from breaking our hearts. We always sit there and take all the shit they hand us. After it, we sit there in awe, unable to believe how awful these boys have treated us. Well here is a warning. You never ever get what you want out of a relationship. Nothing lasts forever, but a lot of girls think a high school relationship is forever and for always. Though we might not want to believe it, almost every guy is only about ass, and is only out there to use us and to get some. It's all fun and games until it's over and we're sitting there crying over a guy who was just breaking us down all along. You have to hold strong and keep your head up and don't give in to them, because if you do you'll get attached and in the end you will only get hurt. What we say just goes in one of their ears and out the other, yet everything they say to us sticks, and we believe every word and end up falling for them. We all need to admit that when a guy takes control over the relationship, we like it. We like knowing we belong to someone and the feeling of security, and just the fact that they are there and they are ours. We like it until it's gone and then we are hurt by the trap we set ourselves up in all along. We set ourselves up for the ultimate fall. Girls lay there and play dead and the guys still kick them while their down. We don't stand up and fight. When guys see they have the power in the relationship, they are amused, because it's something they can control... and we let them control us. We let them tool with our emotions and we usually just roll over and take it. They enjoy having the upper hand in the relationship, only because it makes them feel like for once they have all the power. Most guys are selfish, but only because we let them be. If we stood up for ourselves with half the shit they put us through, we wouldn't be stuck crying hysterically over a guy who was never even worth your time, and we never meant as much to as they meant to us. It doesn't matter who you are, you deserve way better then what these guys are putting you through. Though it is true that there are plenty of boys out there who are real, the majority just want to get some. Like fools, we continuously give it to them and expect them to stick around. Well ladies they aren't going to stick around. There are tons of other girls out there to hurt. We are just another name on there list of girls who've been stepped all over. We all know the lists... the fuck lists, the v-card lists, or just the list they share with their boys. We break down cause we think our life is over, just because a stupid guy has torn us apart and made us feel like we're worthless when we truly are worth so much. It is a known fact that guys think about sex on average every three seconds. At this age, we know that most guys are always getting wasted all the time, and when this happens, it's more like every second that they're thinking about it, and they'll do and say almost anything to get it. We are young and we are naive and so many of us give in, and then end up getting hurt when we find they have no special interest in us and don't want a relationship. Then we sit there and get depressed because we feel hurt and used, and there's nothing we can do but add them to our list of regrets as they add us to their lists of fucks. We then still hold on to the good times, when the majority of that time was filled with tears because we held on and got attached while they were just being the teenage boy our mothers warned us about. There's only one person you need to stay true to, and that's yourself. We need to be strong and avoid this situation if possible. We all fall for guys, and fall hard, but if we overlook the situation and overlook the guy beforehand, a problem waiting to happen can be avoided. We need to ask ourselves: is it worth getting used or hurt? Or, wouldn't you rather wait for someone special to come along who really cares about you? And don't think that when you just met a guy and they tell you all their lies that they are telling the truth, because so many just want to get in our pants and will say and do anything to make us feel special. We all grew up with our mothers and other adults telling us that in life, teenage guys and even guys in their early manhood will so commonly view us as a piece of meat. So many of us sat there and went "yeah, ok, I know," like we understand...but do we really? Once again, there are some boys who are sincere and won't hurt you, but there are plenty out there looking for nothing more then a one night stand. Just be careful. Respect yourself and you beliefs and hold true to them, because they truly are all you have. You don't want to do something you will only regret. Please take this into consideration. So many of us had to learn this the hard way and go through so much hurt. Please tell your friends about this page and even if just one person learns from this, it has been a success. If you would like to email the address listen you may and tell me what you think about this site. Your opinions may be put on the page. Thank You |
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