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Does this make any sense to you? (Notice: this paragraph does not wrote by JaE) !!!! |
The most important things I've come to realise is that life is short, friendship is precious and there's only one moment of your life, and that is now. No one knows what's going to happen tomorrow, so instead of complaining about today, enjoy life and have fun. Imagine one day, you woke up, and it was the last time you saw your room, pets, school, friends.. You are sick, and doctors say you won't live long. Did you have valuable times in the past? Could you look back and say you were happy? Did you waste one minute of life when you are well? This could happen to your best friend, and anybody you love. It is so important to be with close ones, and say everything you want, it could be too late tomorrow.
If you're having a bad day, and you think that nothing could get worse, but believe it or not, you can learn to think in a positive way. For example; you go on the train into the mall, and fount out you left your ticket at home so you must go back and get it. You leave the train and just as you cross the bridge, the one you wanted to get had just left, and you had to wait for 30 minutes. But, when you step on the train, you didn't get your tickets checked. Of course, people are going to be raging that they didn't get the first train, but have you ever thought, what if there was a ticket check on the first one? And you were so lucky enough to miss it. If you think that way, Nothing will ever get in your way, and you can achieve anything. You can teach yourself to be positive... Whatever you do, always be happy, it will change you and the people in your life.
"The lesson that I hope everyone will learn is that it doesn't matter what car you drive and what apartment or house you live in, or even what you look like on the outside. It just matters what your heart looks like. It's about your ability to love." This is one of my favourite quotes by a wise, young girl named Dakota Fanning. It doesn't even matter if you have disabilities, as long as you got the heart to love, it's what matters. It's what you say and do that matters the most. I hope people will begin to realise that. I think, that children’s qualities are rarer than gold. They are the most special people that would ever exist. They are innocent, and they are honest. It doesn't take much to win their love and respect. If you're nice to them, they really give that back. These adorable balls of sunshine can really brighten your day by wanting to be with you. I think they are just special.
It is so important, to me, to appreciate the living creatures and nature. Imagine one day, you can only see a picture of the most beautiful bird in the world in a book or the internet. Wouldn't that be sad? I think it will. There's so much to live for, so much to love and if you see the world as a beautiful, peaceful place, then you will appreciate every little animal, every tree before it's too late.
The really important thing for everyone is to always remember this: If you don’t like what someone is doing to you, then do not do it to others. It may even me simple as talking behind their back. It makes someone feel so good when you give a compliment, but a simple sentence of hatred could destroy their confidence and self respect forever. So think about what you’re going to say next time, perhaps changing from ‘ugh, that is such a ugly top’ to ‘hey I like what you’ve done to your hair today, or anything else.’ Giving compliments are so much better than a negative sentence. Please remember that, because you may have hurt your closest friend, but never realise it, it’s not too late now, please think about your actions before you do them. Everyone, no matter who, wants to be loved, and not rejected. That is a part of humanity.
I have met so many people in the past year that I felt as if I knew them forever. I really have so much fun logging on the internet, checking my emails and replying them! When I made someone else happy, that would make my day. I don’t want anything else… as long as I’ve done what I do, to say something nice to another person, I’m happy. Friendship and love is more important than any materialistic thing… because your spirit lives forever, and when you have no friends, you will feel empty… no amounts of money, or anything like that would replace a loving smile from somebody you love. Don’t go for looks, shapes, wealth, go for the personality. Once you love them for who they are, the rest of them would glow so much that it blinds you…
Finally, I believe it is stupid to hold your anger at someone for a long time. People make mistakes. Everyone is the same, and they can't always be perfect. If you're angry at someone for little things, you won't see the good in them they have. Holding anger on someone for a long time isn't right, especially if they were once a close friend. It takes time and a lot of courage to forgive someone, but if you were in their situation, and you knew you made a big mistake and would do anything to have that person back, would you wish they'd forgive you?
This is just some things are very important to me, and I just wanted to share them. Thank you for reading this.
Light and Love,
Peace,
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Would you rather stay positive or negative? (this paragraph does not wrote by JaE) !!! |
Stay Positive (What do you think about this story) !
Over the past year, I have grown close to and known many people, and there were always demanding issues which were the root of people’s pain and misery. It has been a quite an amazing journey, to walk around this problem, to comprehend and learn from it. The question is. What do you think of yourself? Who influences you? What kind of person are you and do you know yourself the way you think? These questions may cross your path once a while, or every day. But when do you really stop and think about them?
For those people who simply deal with life as it comes, and view the world as full of obstacles and broken roads. Well, you’re in for big stormy weathers and rough rides. Slow down and don’t be afraid to watch the lightning and rain. Be the first person to hear the birds singing just before dawn, be lost in that sound and for one minute, and just picture yourself as a bird. Flying high, to wherever you want. Nobody could stop you, because you’re in control. You rise above everyone and watch what’s beneath you. Pretty amazing isn’t it? Try and remember all the different shades of green, blue and yellow. Life isn’t just black and white. Sometimes the colours are simply hidden, and all you need to do is find them.
Nobody, except you can tell you what you are able to do and achieve. You have the answer inside you. Make the choice of what you want, not what somebody else wants. They may seem to have power and control over you, but don’t give in to them, for they only control you because you let them. Do not let a lie blind you from the truth, and do not let anyone else’s words hurt you. Do what’s right, and you know you’ll have people on your side.
Have you ever felt invisible? Nobody knows you and you wish that somehow, you could just disappear? I’m guessing that nearly everyone has felt that way in some point of their life. You may think how horrible is my face, my own voice sounds awful, I hate the way I look, I’m not good enough, or I want to be somebody else. If you spend half your life wanting to be somebody else, you will miss out learning about yourself, about the things you’re truly capable of doing. You may think ‘That’s nothing’. Or ‘I’ll never know’. That’s wrong, because hidden inside everyone, is a pure and beautiful soul like you’ve never seen. It’s just waiting to be heard, to radiate and to love. But somehow you can lock it away, and after a while, you cannot hear it anymore.
Ask yourself, does it really matter that my face isn’t as good as his or hers? Does it really matter about my weight? Skin? That’s like putting a crime against someone because they’re different! They shouldn’t matter, and if nobody even cares about things like that, you’d feel a lot of pressure is off. And one day, don’t we all grow old and die? Why does it matter how we look now?
I have also learnt so much from children, especially the young ones. They are butterflies that aren’t afraid to fly, their minds are simple, and they don’t hide their feelings. You could almost tell immediately if they like you or not. I had the pleasure to spend some time with some year 1 and 2’s, all I can say was they are amazing and full of life. All they care about is that moment, and only that moment. I hope nobody loses that innocence. It’s so precious, But the sad thing is, a lot of people may not see that, and ultimately, they forget.
Remember, we all make mistakes. Big and small, but the most important thing is, do we learn from it? I was asked this question, If I could change anything from the past, what would it be? I answered Nothing, because of these past events, lead me to who I am today. I have learned and grown from what I have faced. We do things we regret all the time, like getting angry at your best friend because you’ve had a bad day! But what happens, will happen and you could only forgive and forget.
So finally, I just want to say thank you for reading, and keep in mind what’s important and what’s not. You’re a special person, you really are!
Love, light and peace
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FunnY Joke's (This paragraph might include Bad words and does not wrote by JaE) !!!! |
Closer to God:
A 70-year-old man went to the doctor's for a physical. The doctor ran some tests and said to the man, "Well, everything seems to be in top condition physically, but what about mentally? How is your connection with God?"
And the man answered, "Oh me and God? We have a really tight bond, he's so good to me. Every night when I have to get up to go to the bathroom, he turns on the light for me, and then, when I leave, he turns it back off."
The Doctor was astonished. He called the man's wife and said, "I'd like to speak to you about your husband's connection with God. He claims that every night when he needs to use the restroom, God turns on the light for him and turns it off for him again when he leaves. Is this true?"
And she said, "That idiot, he's been peeing in the refrigerator!"
Death Sentence
An American, a New Zealand and an Australian are sentenced to death. The American is brought out first. The firing squad takes aim. Suddenly the American yells, ‘Avalanche!’ In the confusion he escapes.
The New Zealander is impressed and decides to try something similar. As the squad takes aim he yells, ‘Flood!’ And in the confusion, he too makes his escape.
The Australian has observed this closely. He decides to follow their example. So just as the firing squad takes aim he yells, ‘Fire!’
THE BLONDE Painter
This blonde decides one day that she is sick and tired of all these blond jokes and how all blondes are perceived as stupid, so she decides to show her husband that blondes really are smart. While her husband is off at work, she decides that she is going to paint a couple of rooms in the house. The next day, right after her husband leaves for work, she gets down to the task at hand. Her husband arrives home at 5:30 and smells the distinctive smell of paint. He walks into the living room and finds his wife lying on the floor in a pool of sweat.
He notices that she is wearing a ski jacket and a fur coat at the same time. He goes
over and asks her if she is OK. She replies yes.
He asks what she is doing. She replies that she wanted to prove to him that not all blonde women are dumb and she wanted to do it by painting the house.
He then asks her why she has a ski jacket over her fur coat. She replies that she was reading the directions on the paint can and they said....
FOR BEST RESULTS, PUT ON TWO COATS.
Misunderstanding Words
A little girl was watching TV and she saw the words bitches and bastards come across the screen and she went to the kitchen and asked mom what do bitches and bastards mean and her mom told it means people that come to the door and her mom said go back and watch TV. Then she seen the words boobs and asses come across the screen and she went and asked her mom what does boobs and asses mean and her mom told her it means clothing and coats and stuff now go see what your dad is doing so she goes upstairs and hears her dad say shit and the she ask what does shit mean and he says shaving now go see what you mom 's doing so she goes and hears her mom say fuck and she asks mom what does fuck mean she says cooking a chicken, now go answer the door.
She walks to the door and says "hi bitches and bastard may I take your boobs and asses my dads upstairs shitting and my mom is in the kitchen fucking the chicken.
Little Johnny & Jesus Christ
A Sunday School teacher of pre-schoolers was concerned that his students might be a
little confused about Jesus Christ because of the Christmas season emphasis on His birth.
He wanted to make sure they understood that the birth of Jesus occurred a long time ago,
that He grew up, etc. So he asked his class, "Where is Jesus today?"
Steven raised his hand and said, "He's in heaven."
Mary was called on and answered, "He's in my heart."
Little Johnny, waving his hand furiously, blurted out, "I know! I know! He's in our bathroom!"
The whole class got very quiet, looked at the teacher, and waited for a response.
The teacher was completely at a loss for a few very long seconds. He finally gathered
his wits and asked Little Johnny how he knew this.
Little Johnny said, "Well...every morning, my father gets up, bangs on the bathroom door,
and yells 'Jesus Christ, are you still in there?'
Mary's Opinion of Adam and Eve
Little Mary was not the best student in Sunday school. Usually she slept through the class.
One day the teacher called on her while she was sleeping, "Tell me Mary, Who created the universe?"
When Mary didn't stir, little Johnny, an altruistic boy seated behind her, took a pin and jabbed her in the rear.
"GOD almighty!" she yelled. "Very good!" the teacher said as Mary went back to sleep.
A while later the teacher asked "Who is our LORD and savior?" But once again Mary didn't stir. Once again Johnny came to her rescue. "Jesus Christ" Mary said, then fell back to sleep.
The teacher asked Mary a third question "What did Eve say to Adam after their twenty-third child?"
And once again Johnny jabbed her with the pin. This time Mary jumped up and said "if you stick that damn thing up me one more time I'll break it in half!"
The teacher fainted.
1 Dumb Guy
3 guys were stuck on an island. One day, one of the guys found a very old bottle. As he opened the bottle, out popped a genie who granted each of the guys 1 wish.
The first guy wished he could go home to his family. Poof, his wish came true and he was back with his family. The second guy wished the same thing, that he could go home to his family. Poof, the second guy was home with his family.
The third guy wasn't exactly smart. He looked around the island, feeling kind of lonely. He looked at the genie and said "I wish my 2 friends were back on the island again with me."
Who is Jack Schitt?
Who is Jack Schitt? The Lineage Revealed. Many people are at a loss for a response when someone says, "You don't know Jack Schitt". Now, You can handle the situation.
Jack is the only son of Awe Schitt and O. Schitt. Awe Schitt, the fertilizer magnate, married O. Schitt, the owner of Knee-deep Schitt, Inc. In turn, Jack Schitt married Noe Schitt and the deeply religious couple produced 6 children: Holie Schitt, The twins; Deep Schitt and Dip Schitt, Fulla Schitt, Giva Schitt and Bull Schitt, a high school dropout.
After being married for 15 years Jack and Noe divorced. Noe later married Mr. Sherlock and because her kids were living with them, she wanted to keep her previous name. She was known as Noe Schitt-Sherlock.
Dip Schitt married Loda Schitt and they produced a cowardly son, Chicken Schitt. Fulla Schitt and Giva Schitt were inseparable throughout childhood and consequently, married the Happens brothers in a dual ceremony.
The Schitt-Happens children are Dawg, Byrd and Horse. Bull Schitt the prodigal son, left home to tour the world. He recently returned with his new bride, Pisa Schitt. Now, when someone say's you don't know Jack Schitt, you can correct them.
Toilet Training
My three year old son Tim had a lot of problems with toilet training and I was constantly onto him. One day we stopped at McDonalds for a quick lunch in between errands. It was very busy with a full dining area.
While enjoying my burger, I could smell something funny so as a matter of course I checked my seven month old daughter but she was clean. It was then that I realized that Tim had not asked to go to the toilet for a while, so I asked him if he needed to go and he said, "No." I kept thinking to myself, "How embarrassing, Tim has had an accident and I don't have any spare clothes with me." Then I said, "Tim, are you sure you haven't had an accident?" "No!", he emphatically replied.
I just knew that he must have, as the smell was getting stronger so I asked him once again, "Are you really sure, Tim, that you haven't had just a little accident?" With that he leapt from the table, yanked down his pants, bent over and spread the cheeks of his bottom and yelled, "SEE MUM, THEY'RE JUST FARTS!!!"
While 50 people nearly choked to death on their burgers and fries, he calmly pulled up his pants and sat back at the table to eat his food as if nothing had happened. I was mortified. An elderly couple made me feel a lot better when they came over and thanked me for the best laugh they had ever had! Another old gentleman stopped us in the car park as we were leaving, bent over to my son and in a kindly voice said to Tim, "Don't worry son, my wife accuses me of the same thing all the time ... I just never had the nerve to make the point like you did."
Yard Work Sign Language
A couple are doing yard work and the wife goes to take a shower. Her husband is looking for the rake and can't find it. He yells up to his wife, but she motions to him from the window like she can't hear.
So he points to his eye, hits his knee, and then makes raking motions, {"I need the rake."}
She replies by pointing to her eye, grabbing her left breast, slaps her butt then rubs her crotch.
The man is confused and runs up stairs.--- "What? What was that?"
"Eye, Left tit, behind, the bush."
One Good Wish
One day in the great forest a magical frog was Walking down to a water hole. This forest was so big that the frog had not seen another animal in all his life. By chance today a bear was chasing after a rabbit to have for dinner. The frog called for the two to stop.
The frog said "Because you are the only two animals I have seen, I will grant
you both three wishes... Bear, you go first." The bear thought for a minute, and being the male he was, said "I wish for all the bears in this forest, besides me, to be female For his wish, the rabbit asked for a crash helmet, and immediately put it on. The bear was amazed at the stupidity of the rabbit, wasting his wish like that. It was the bear's second turn for a wish. "Well, I wish that all the bears in the next forest were female as well." Rabbit asked for a motorcycle and immediately hopped on it and gunned the engine. The bear was shocked that the rabbit was asking for th |
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This is a very interesting test .Try it. Have a pen and paper handy before you read any further. As soon as you read a question, write the answer right away. Make sure to answer questions 1-10 before moving on...NO CHEATING! Read the following: |
1. You are not alone. You are walking in the woods. Who are you walking with?
2. You are walking in the woods. You see an animal. What kind of animal is it?
3. What interaction takes place between you and the animal?
4. You walk deeper in the woods. You enter a clearing and before you is your dream house. Describe its size.
5. Is your dream house surrounded by a fence?
6. You enter the house. You walk to the dining area and see the dining room table. Describe what you see on AND around the table.
7. You exit the house through the back door. Lying in the grass is a cup. What material is the cup made of?
8. What do you do with the cup?
9. You walk to the edge of the property, where you find yourself standing at the edge of a body of water. What type of body of! water is it?
10. How will you cross the water?
This has been a relational psychology test. The answers given to the questions have been shown to have a insight to values and ideals that we hold in our personal lives.
The analysis follows:
1. The person who you are walking with is the most important person in your life.
2. The size of the animal is representative of your perception of the size of your problems.
3. The severity of the interaction you have with the animal is representative of how you deal with your problems. (Passive/aggressive)
4. The size of your dream house is representative of the size of your ambition to resolve your problems.
5. No fence is indicative of an open personality. People are welcome at all times. The presence of a fence indicates a closed personality. You'd prefer people not to drop by unannounced!
6. If your answer did not include food, people, or flowers, then you are generally unhappy.
7. The durability of the material which the cup is made of is representative of the perceived durability of your relationship with the person named in #1. For example, Styrofoam, and paper are disposable, metal, glass and Plastic are durable.
8. Your disposition of the cup is representative of your attitude towards the person in #1.
9. The size of the body of water is representative of the size of your sexual desire.
10. How wet you get in crossing the water is indicative of the relative importance of your sex life.
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Common Issues (This paragraph does not wrote by JaE) !!!!! |
COMMON ISSUES : Common issues such as anxiety, abuse of any type, depression, grief, suicide and many others could effect a person greatly. Some people may be lucky to get help early, but others may not have a clue. This is designed to help those people who seek a bit of help and perhaps someone to talk to. The links provide a number of different information. The source of the information are also credited on the separate pages.
THE REASON BEHIND : People may be wondering, why am I writing about this? You may want to ask. Even though I've never had serious problems, but I know many people do, and I also know that more people don't understand, and they misjudge people that have problems. I want to help some people understand that telling people to 'Stop being unhappy', or 'I'm so annoyed at him/her because they're always depressed.'. If you don't know, depression and other illness that affects people mentally is not to be taken as a joke. If you know someone who is constantly unhappy, perhaps you need to take it more seriously.
I can't tell you exactly how it feels to suffer from all this, because I have been really lucky, but I can tell you it's not something that anyone would want. If one would not ask to have cancer, or aids, they would not want any time of mental disability. I never knew big these issues were, but now I kn ow that so many people are going through the same thing, fearing the same thing. I do think it's important people accept that physical diseases and mental diseases are the same thing. If a cancer patient cannot kill the cancerious cell, they cannot snap out of being 'depressed' or anything else.
FINAL WORDSIt's really sad when people don't even feel like they can tell others people, but what's sadder is when someone feels that they can't talk to anyone because the person they know doesn't seem interested. If you feel that way, please understand that there is somebody out there who wants to help. You are not alone.Please contact me. I'm here to listen and give ideas.
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